Wednesday, June 25, 2014

To My Wife 9

Within a Realm of existence, very similar to ours, your far is an activist within the InterFaith Movement.  Within my work, I radically challenge conventional authority in many subtle, yet provocative manners.  At some point, I am featured within a communiqué that travels around many circles within our international community.  Within my portion of the communiqué, I describe a rather remarkable vision and plan for global and Universal harmony that our collective is building.  During that period, your mor is working and studying within academia.  She is involved with humanitarian work, and through this, she receives the communiqué.  After reading the communiqué, she is inspired by the vision and plan that I describe, and she is interested in contacting me to learn additionally.  She tries to find me on Facebook, but she notices that my account is inactive;  she is uncertain about the email address, and she is too uncomfortable in making a direct phone call.  She decides to write a letter to the listed postal address, in addition to an email.  Well, by that point, I stop checking my postal mail, and much of it is intercepted by people who are close to me but who also disagree with me.  As for the email address, I very rarely check it, and I abstain from receiving.  After a while your mor decides to find another way.  The ideas are percilating within her find and she is interested in learning further.  She googles me and the associations that I maintain, and she learns additionally.  She looks me up on LinkedIn, and finds that I am only 3 degrees away from her amidst the contacts we share.  Yet, there is little success with the listed email address, again.  Yet, your mor also learns that I study at a number of different universities, and she knows that 1 of her brother’s colleagues also studies at 1 of these universities, as well.  She asks him to talk with his colleague and to see if he might know anyone who studies at the university with me.  It turns out that the colleague actually studies with me at the university, and knows me fairly well during that period.  He says he knows me as a rather nice and unassuming guy;  but, he is informed that I recently become heavily involved with comparative religion and activism, that I make some very challenging and unsettling proclamations, even being previously arrested and locked within psych wards;  so, he is uncertain what to conclude.  Your mor’s brother even hesitates from sharing this with her because he is concerned for her.  Indeed, your mor becomes increasingly uneasy with the information;  yet, she is also increasingly intrigued.  She continues to learn further about the InterFaith Movement, without concentrating as muchu upon me.  A little while later, as your mor becomes increasingly versed with interreligious activism, she discovers that the next Parliament is being scheduled in México.  Whilst she is rather cosmopolitan, well-versed within international culture, and with modest travelling experience, she is previously hesitant in attending any previous interFaith events in other nations, because of the lack of familiarity with the entire scene.  And there are very few of such events in Brasil at that point.  However, she considers that México is comparatively close, she can progress through the language, and it is the Parliament:  the largest gathering of our InterFaith Movement.  So she is motivated to go;  she just has to figure out how.  The biggest hurdle is getting the approval of your morfar;  because, whilst she is an adult woman in her 20’s, she still relies upon his material and moral support.  Through a series of extended, well-articulated , and logic-based conversations, your mor describes her entire approach for attending the Parliament:  travel and accommodation logistics, safety precautions, specific workshops and programmes to attend, colleagues with whom to connect, and further, the benefits that this experience has for her, her family, and her community when she returns.  And amidst these conversations, your morfar actually agrees and supports her efforts.  Your mor tells me, given the protective ways of your morfar, she very much considers this an act of Divine Providence, and she provides thanks to God.  During this same period, I experience a few considerable successes within my interreligious diplomacy.  I also experience a few considerable challenges and static from a number of groups, including my own family.  I live on the verge of homelessness on the street, with very few material provisions and very modest support.  There is serious doubt regarding my ability to conduct any form of cross-border travels, let alone attend the Parliament.  Yet, I am able to build upon a series of agreements to be able to continually and reliably support myself.  An increasing number of family and friends gain increased confidence with our vision and plan.  And I become increasingly settled in building a homestead.  And amidst this I am able to make arrangements to attend the Parliament.  When I arrive, I am already a veteran of the scene;  I have a strong idea where to go, whom to see, and when to rest.  Your mor breathes it all in.  She travels to numerous, colourful cities before, so she is less mystified by the energy and grandeur.  What substantially impresses her are the significant crowds from different regions of the Earth;  different religions of God;  and different languages and cultures of humanity.  The Parliament attendees, each dress as if preparing for a “We Are The World” group photograph;  but it is all very genuine and heartfelt.  There is a common bond that connects all the people, amidst the very noticeable, and very serious, differences.  In fact, the differences become a very popular reason for participants to introduce 1’s self.  The “Kum By, Yah” flux holds strong and steady throughout the Parliament.  Indeed, it becomes almost overwhelming for your mor to endure the entire week and a half.  The Parliament programme contains hundreds of pages of hundred of workshops and events;  and your mor is very deliberate in reviewing all the options and making balanced selections.  During 1 of the 1st Days, our friends from the Baha’i community convenea roundtable open forum on the topic of the multiethnic experience.  The roundtable panel includes young, multiethnic adults respectively from Cape Town, Singapore, Rio De Janeiro, London, and Toronto.  The roundtable also catches my eye, and I attend, as well.  When the roundtable opens up, I share a brief insight, and your mor recognises me.  She also shares a comment during the forum, but it is after I already recognise her;  she need say very little.  We are situated in different sections of the room, so when the event concludes, it is difficult for each of us to casually walk towards each other and introduce ourselves.  She is somewhat apprehensive, and I want to abstain from being presumptuous.  By the point that I am able to gain some semblance of strategic position, I have difficulty seeing her.  I attribute it to another staging moment towards serendipity;  so whilst I am stoically optimistic and Faithful, there is some depletion of air.  Later that evening, there is a low-key soirée in a lounge of 1 of the nearby large hotels.  I am only told about this relunctantly, within the context of retroactive polite conversation (after another friend briefly references this to another in passing).  I am also less inclined towards attending;  however, I have plans to share coffee with a friend a few hours later, and less than a block away, as part of the 24-hour scheduling that tends to pervade the Parliament.  The scene is cool and mellow amidst the Guadalajara Summer.  It is my type of scene when I am in my 20’s.  When I arrive, I think of whether I may see her here.  And I do.  I see her in a small circle of young friends, a number of whom I recognise from my involvement with NAIN and URI.  I join the conversation without speaking.  I shake a few hands and share a few smiles.  In my textbook manner, I find a nearby place to sit, although I make sure to make eye contact with your mor before I do so.  In a manner similar to the Corleoné story, the meeting of our eyes is like lightning, although the thunder previously builds over the past many years.  As I sit solitarily for a while, I continue to look in her direction without being obsessive or looking directly at her.  Yet, your mor abstains from returning any semblance of a glance.  A friend stops by me and sits to talk.  And your mor quickly glances towards me.  Our eyes meet, again.  Our friend offers a polite excuse and departs.  Perhaps encouraged by our 2nd glance, perhaps relieved that another person finds me conversation-worthy, or perhaps emboldened by the obligation of completing a standing mission, your mor craftily makes her way towards where I am seated.  Through a patient waltz brief salutations and smiles, I eventually and Happily see her seated next to me.  The finishing act of sitting down is completed with both with unchalant indifference of happenstance, as well as full and determined intention.  She looks directly at me and smiles as she sits.  I smile and look at her, as well, without appearing (in my mind) overanxious.  I calmly offer to your mor, “Hi, my name is Peter.”  She shakes my hand and assertively responds with, “Peter Johannesen Osisi.”  My smile widens with the involuntary experience of flattery, yet without surprise, as I already see see too much of this world, cosmos, and Universe to perceive being too un/important to be un/known by anyone.  Your mor shares with me her name.  Shen mentions that she is from Brasil, and she explains how she becomes familiar with the work of myself and our collective.  In the risk of committing the multiethnic faux-pas (yet relying my multiethnic exception clause), I ask your mor where her family is from.  She describes her ancestry from India, China, Arabia, Iberia, and additionally;  as well as some of her family and community life in Brasil.  We talk about our Universal vision and plans.  She asks me about the progression of the ACE Plan, and the work of both WเเϕAنא andΣO אن.  I ask her about her studies and her work at the university.  As we become increasingly comfortable with each other, we become increasingly candid with each other.  Your mor intimates that she is spiritually inspired by our work;  by the Truth and the force and compassion of our approach.  Yet, she is troubled by some of my communications;  perhaps these are too honest, too indifferent, or too strange.  I assure her that I understand her concerns and recognise the discomfort;  but that it is part of the cost in maintaining proximity to Truth.  I describe how muc of the proclamations are increasingly contextualised within contemporary social parlance and interaction, and that we are increasingly settled within society and convention.  She looks at me with a smile, tilts her head closer towards me and explains that some of my communications make it very obvious that I am hard-up for a wife.  I lean back with a chuckle and smile.  I appreciate her honest and the immediacy it builds between us.  I provide the humbling lesson that this is something beyond my control, but that I am earnestly working on it.  And I ask your mor whether she has any suggestions.  She smiles, and she leans back, balancing the implications of my counter.  Her tone becomes somewhat serious as she states that a woman wants to feel secure and comfortable with any prospective husband;  that a woman wants to believe that her husband will be able to care and provide for both her and the family’s children, along with himself.  And, of course, her husband must live a spiritual life that is compatible with hers.  The 2 must have a compatible understanding of God, the Universe, life, and our purpose within all this. This shared spirituality is necessary to strengthen the relationships within the family and between the family and extending family members and community.  There is a quiet in the room amidst the timelessness of our conversation.  Your mor mentions laughter and the little things;  attentiveness.  Her movements become increasingly pensive, communicating from an innerplace that very few previously reach.  She looks increasingly down towards the coffee table in front of us, sitting in angle towards my direction, and continually brushing the hair from her face.  I ask her about her life as a young girl, growing up in Rio.  I tell your mor about the Heights and life within our Cuyahoga area.  I open my backpack and share with her some of my writing.  By this point, the lounge is nearly empty.  I previously text my friend about rescheduling our rendez-vous.  I look outside the window and the dark blue evening sky floating above the city lights.  I point towards the Sky and tell her, “The Moon is smiling.”  She does, as well.  We proceed outside the glass doors unto a patio deck.  We find 2 chairs and talk about our experiences in Guadalajara over the past few days.  She asks me about my meditation practices and my spiritual journey and beliefs.  As I delve into the Theology of धर्म עולם תקן, I ask her additionally about some of her experiences with the Baha’i community, Brahma Kumaris, and Soka Gakkai.  I ask her about her newfound experience with URI, and how she balances all this with her Catholic community and her family’s Muslim and Taoist heritages.  We discuss some of the challenges being multiethnic and multireligious.  We talk about the burgeoning number of people who are increasingly affirmative and accepted in being multiethnic and/or multireligious.  We compare the multiethnic, multireligious experiences in Brasil, the United States, and additionally.  And then we delve into culture.  She flexes her knowledge in US-based hip hop and jazz, and then asks me to explain some of the references, and share additional insight.  I intentionally solicit a lesson in Portuguese, as I begin to sing the 1st few lines of “Felicdade.”  We begin to rattle lists of our favourite words, terms, and concepts from different traditions.  And with each 1 we list, we delve into an extended path about the nature of that concept and our understanding and experience thereof.  We then go into anectdotal descriptions of our life experiences, and the lessons we learn from these concepts, during or after these incidents.  Perhaps, amidst the increasing fatigue we become silly and start to share some of the jokes and riddles that we each can remember.  At 1st, the jokes are cute and amusing;  yet after a few minutes, the jokes become very strained and corny.  We learn that corniness is a Universal characteristic within humanity, and yet whilst its nature si very similar across cultures, our corny jokes reveal an intimate and vulnerable semblance of innocence and childhood that is tangibly unique within each of our cultures.  As the Sky begins to change colours and the rising of the Sun becomes increasingly evident, I offer the suggestion that we partake in breakfast.  Your mor readily agrees, and she comments about the perceptions people may draw from our current circumstances.  Your mor then sighs that it is somewhat late for her to do something about that and I experience a twinge of guilt as I consider my lack of discretion, and perhaps indulgence, in leading her into such a circumstance.  I try to lighten the circumstances by offering, “We can say that you are my wife,” and she offers a feigned smile and nod as we are both aware of the inefficacy of my statement.  I ask the hotel clerk about a recommendation for a breakfast restaurant;  and we walk a few blocks away, per the clerk’s directions.  We proceed with a certain silence, recognising the solmeness.  Yet, by the hour we reach the restaurant, we find a vibrancy and energy.  There are people;  there is action;  there is commotion.  We fit within the mix, and few seem to paying any special close attention.  I talk with the manager to confirm agreeable terms of bartering for the breakfast:  a voucher at the nearby hotel and a gift card to a local retail outlet.  When we are seated, I recite a blessing over the water and bread that are initially provided.  I ask your mor about some of her favourite dishes that she likes to eat and that she likes to cook.  We both talk about our experiences with different ethnic cuisines and the coinciding occasions for partaking in such cuisine:  numerous family and community gatherings, late night excursions with friends, travel abroad journeys, and adventurous jaunts to nearby spots.  I describe my journey into vegetarianism, and she describes her challenges practising such amidst a culture of carne.  As we finish our breakfasts, we return into the bustling streets and the AM traffic.  When we arrive back at the Parliament, we already establish a transcendent friendship with each other;  a companionship, an understanding;  even, a marital bond, although we abstain from pushing undue bounds (and knowing that our marital bond exists before we even set eyes upon each other, and perhaps before we are each even conceived).  As we walk together through the atrium, we already agree to spend the rest of the Parliament together.  We miss the day’s 1st session, and we encounter a number of smiling faces during the interim transition period.  A few friends greet and we confirm the intention for all of us to attend the same roundtable discussion during the next upcoming session:  Post-Modern Methodologies For Community Building.

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